You Were Created for Community
Have you ever found yourself surrounded by notifications, likes, and messages, yet feeling completely alone? You post, you scroll, you wait... and somehow the emptiness only grows deeper. Why is that? Because
you were never designed to do life alone.
Let’s look to Genesis 1. In this opening chapter of Scripture, we see a rhythmic cadence: "God said... saw it was good... evening and morning a new day." This beautiful poetic order continues through the fifth day. Then, came the sixth day, with the creation of man. And then, the cadence breaks. In ancient writing, repetition change emphasizes a critical point. And now, we look for the point of emphasis.
In Genesis 2:18, the rhythm changes with, “Then the LORD God said, ‘It is not good…’” So what comes next, we must pay attention to. What is it that is not good? “…That man should be alone..’”
Now, let that land. In a perfect, sinless world—before the fall, before the serpent, before shame and guilt—God said something was not good. Man, in his sinless condition, was still incomplete. Why? Because he was alone. Wayne Grudem puts it like this: "God did not create us to be isolated individuals but to be in relationship, just as He is in eternal relationship within the Trinity."
But, how do people, you and me, often do when life gets frustrating? We scroll. We swipe. We post. Then, instead of relief, we find more discontent. Why? Because
you can’t fill a relational void with digital distraction.
The more time we spend alone, the more that inner ache amplifies. And here’s the kicker: this is not an accident. This ache is by design. We must understand that God created man with a need for community. Al Mohler once said, "The Church is not a collection of isolated individuals, but a family formed by God to reflect His glory in relationship."
Though Genesis 2:18 is foundational for marriage, the passage isn’t just about marriage. We keep our conversation on a much broader perspective, and focus on the simple idea of connection—community. People who laugh with you. People who cry with you. People who pray over you. Hebrews 10:24-25 says, "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together... but encouraging one another."
Whether it’s a Bible study group, a crew at the gym, or some Christian friends who love to shoot hoops, find people to do life with. Life-on-life discipleship isn’t a church program—it’s a way of life.
Who knows the real you? Who’s praying for you? Who do you call when you don’t even know what to say?
Take one step today towards stronger community. Join a group. Reach out to a Christian friend. Sign up for that small group. Ask someone to grab coffee. Don’t let the ache of aloneness push you into isolation. Let it push you into connection.
Teaser for Next Week:
In our next episode, we’re going to look at what biblical relationships are supposed to look like. What are the ingredients of healthy, God-honoring relationships? We’ll explore scripture and hear from thought leaders like Ed Welch and Paul Tripp. Don’t miss it.
Until next we, stay faithful, stay connected—and remember, the laborers are few, but the harvest is plentiful.
United in faith, this group exemplifies community strength. Together, we support and uplift each other on our spiritual journeys. We are not meant to walk alone; we need each other to thrive.